A special world for you and me
A special bond one cannot see
It wraps us up in its cocoon
And holds us fiercely in its womb.
Its fingers spread like fine spun gold
Gently nestling us to the fold
Like silken thread it holds us fast
Bonds like this are meant to last.
And though at times a thread may break
A new one forms in its wake
To bind us closer and keep us strong
In a special world, where we belong.
- Sheelagh Lennon -
Love. Can anyone really define what Love means? How is it suppose to feel? Why do people fall so hard for this word...LOVE?
Some people believe that love can take them out of dark places that they are in. Some search for it and sadly, never obtain it. Most, in todays time, abuse this word to the point where no one can really believe in love.
Well I'm not going to tell you how to obtain it. Or how it should feel. However, I can tell you what it is NOT and maybe what It could be.
Love is not hate. Love is not a abusive relationship where you are beaten, verbally or emtionally abused. Love is not SEX and most importantly, Love is not confusion.
Love is Patience, time, Understanding, commitment, Talking (Calmly), and Most importantly it is a Spiritual base love between you, the person you are with, and God.
All these things that Love is and is not, Some will never really understand or even comprehend what the TRUE meaning of Love is. Love can also be an obstacle and it is healthy for you and the relationship to go through some things with the person you love. Thats why it is so hard to Obtain..because no one wants to get hurt in the process.
So, if you want to have the right love, you might have to take a chance. You never know; some are blessed to be in love the first time.
Taking chances are mandatory. I also think that looking outside what we would normally migrate towards is necessary too. Can you imagine now many people miss out on love because they are unwilling to go outside the norm.
ReplyDeleteI think the reason that some people abuse love so much is because a lot of people are in love with the thought of being in love. They never intend to take it serious once it moves past the honeymoon phase. Unfortunate, but true. Has to be 50/50 because anything else won't work and some women get it twisted and think they can make a man love them by loving him to that point. Doesn't work like that.
Glad to see you figured your picture thing out! I love it! Fun, huh??!!